What is Love? Interesting words by our Love Guru

The most interesting, most experienced and the most discussed topic by everyone is Love. There may be a story without a person, But there will not be a person without a love story.

But what is Love? Where does it start? How it will be? There are many questions.

Everyone in this world experience their first love from parents. The love by parents to children is non-selfish, pure and true. The sacrifices, beliefs, and values parents implant in their children will help determine the person they grow up to be. A child is like a sponge that absorbs their parent’s thoughts and viewpoints that will stay with them for the rest of their lives. And this Love continues with next generations.

Love between a boy and a girl

The word Love is very simple to spell but very difficult to understand. Love is very confusing and many people don’t have a clarity on Love. Common questions in everyone’s mind from teen age is, “who is my soulmate? Where is he/she? When we will meet? etc..”

In present generation mostly Love is beautiful to their eyes but not to heart. A boy looks for a girl who is cute, adorable, good looking or a girl looks for the guy who is smart, handsome good looking. They just search for the outer appearance but not the inner beauty, but they will know the value of inner beauty with age and situations.

Then When we see a person with the specifications we needed like cute, handsome, smart etc., we fall in Love for them(the fact is that’s not love, that is the attraction towards beauty of the opposite person). Then we first make friendship with that person then we start chatting, showing care for them, and try to impress that person by presenting small gifts. And we just try to get good impression. Then after we propose the person in a romantic time. Till then we will be happy because of the intention that the beautiful person should be mine. Whether we like or not, we will be favourable to her and we are curious to know about her.

Everyone thinks accepting proposal is the end of love story, but many don’t know that the problems start after the accepting proposal. After some passed days in this kind of love we start to think we lost our private life by hearing questions like, when your mobile is engaged your partner asks whom are you talking with? You were talkative before, but quite now (because before you are curious to know her, but now you know everything about her) from your loved one. Like this many questions will raise. And finally at a time of thinking to lead a happy life together their will be a question in our mind, “ Is he/she is our soulmate?” This will increase the distance between them and this leads to Breakup. Where is Love in this? Do anyone think this as Love?

By analysing where the problem is, Everyone is attracting to the external beauty but no looking for the internal purity.

What to do?

Firstly when we like anyone we should not love them, we should doubt them. We have to know every small thing about them, and get a clarity on are they compatible with us. The main thing is we have to wait, which means we should spend much time to know the person completely.

The mistake that we do is, we love is blind and start loving. And after blind love we feel life is blank and spend the rest of life in sorrow. We imagine love is blind because everyone say love is blind, but love is not blind we are blind, we love closing our eyes.

Love at first sight

God has created the emotion of love, there will be a process in everything created by God and it takes time. If a baby has to be born there is a process of 9 months.

Many people talk about love at first sight, is 1 second enough to fall in love? Think guys what do we know in 1 second about the opposite person? Just there external beauty, is that enough to live life long happily together? the answer is no, we need internal beauty, a beautiful heart to understand us, to care about us, a clean and beautiful mind to think about us and to protect us. So, what I suggest is please wait and spend time with that person, know him completely, confirm he/she is suitable to your life and then propose him/her. Because decisions taken in happiness and emotion are most of the time wrong.

Identifying your soulmate

We smile when that person sits beside us, we feel lonely when that person is not beside us. With whom we express everything without any hesitation, and the person who will not raise defects in us. The person who is being comfortable by making us feel comfortable. and the person who encourages and protects us is the person whom we can propose or we can accept the proposal of such person.

But remember, once we propose or accept there should be only love. There should not be blaming or questioning. We should not give place to negative emotions. In anything like Caring, Sharing, Support, Encouragement etc., we should not have selfishness in love. We should maintain strong friendship, because Love will be forever where there is friendship. Then only we can enjoy the Power of Love.

Love will always be perfect, but lovers cannot be perfect. There will be some faults in everyone, we should understand that faults of our loved one

Final words,

I have seen many people in love, Some people feel like they are with a stranger when with there loved one. Some will be afraid by seeing there loved one and feel insecure. Some doesn’t feel love but spend time.

what I suggest is, living alone is better than feeling like this. what is special in us if we do love the samething as the other people like in our loved one. Love is loving what others does not like in our loved one. we should never Love a beautiful girl or a handsome guy, we should love those with whom our life will be beautiful.

Many say love leaves sadness in the last moments, but love never make us sad, only the people do. Lonely feeling will make us sad. cheating will make us feel very bad. We cannot bear losing someone, and when our loved one leaves us we get into depression.

Finally remember one thing, we should not expect love from anyone, just express our love to them. Love to express, but not to impress.

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