3 Things That May Be Killing Your Intelligence

“Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will spend its whole life thinking it’s stupid” – Einstein.

As we humans, we are supposed to learn things. Learning things in better way and implementing them in effectively needs Intelligence.
A new research found that as we gets older our intelligence might gets higher. But most of people kills their intelligence by fallowing or doing stupid things.

Here are three things that may be killing your intelligence and which you should keep in mind.

1. School

Although school is supposed to help children become conscious, smart, thoughtful problem solvers, in reality it has not achieved that yet. In fact, most schools around the world only achieve to kill children’s intelligence, and that’s for plenty of reasons. School teaches children to conform, to obey to authority and accept unquestionably what they are being taught — in essence, it teaches children what to think but not how to think, hence children cannot develop their critical thinking. In addition, school is suppressing children by confining them in a room and teaching them day in and day out things that they don’t truly care about learning. As a result, after years upon years of schooling, children learn to associate in their minds the acquirement of knowledge with the negative emotionally experiences they had at school, and so they avoid seeking knowledge later on in their life, which helps to stunt their intellectual development.

2. TV

An obvious thing that is killing people’s intelligence is TV, but many fail to recognize this. Most people around the world, and in particular in the West, choose to spend hours upon hours everyday watching TV, unaware of its harmful effects. Television is feeding them with lies through advertising and fake journalism, and is hypnotizing them with soaps and all kinds of stupid shows, thus turning them into passive zombies who are wasting their entire life sitting on a chair, doing almost nothing other than receiving the mental and emotional garbage that TV is throwing in their psyche.

3. Religion

Religion does have great lessons that can help people become the greatest version of themselves, but when it becomes organized and dogmatic, it can only help reduce people’s intelligence. Organized religion urges people to blindly believe in ideologies and follow dogmas, having conditioned them to be afraid to think for themselves and act on their own, and especially to never question, doubt or renounce their religion, because if they do otherwise they might be thrown into hell. As a result, so called religious people choose to conform, never challenging their beliefs and hence not growing intellectually, let alone spiritually.

If you know more things that kills intelligence, please let me know

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Six ways to Understand Women

Six ways to Understand Women

Understanding is the base for every relationship. Most of the women feels men never understand them and most of the men say understanding women is very complicate.

Forget all these, understanding women isn’t that complicated. Here are the Six Keys to Understand Women

1. Recognize that women want to feel connected.

Women want to make sure the relationship is on solid ground. After a period of separation (even a day apart), establish that closeness as soon as you can, and everything afterward will flow more freely. This doesn't mean you have to put your own needs completely on hold. For example, if you come home exhausted from a long day at work and your partner wants to talk, trying saying, “I'm so glad to see you. I missed you and wondering how your day was going. I want to hear all about it, but I'm tired right now. I need a few minutes to unwind and relax. Can we talk in 15 minutes?”

2. Don't jump in the problem – solving mode. 

If you're not sure what your partner needs at any given moment, it's okay to ask her. You might say, “It sounds like you're really upset. Would you like me to listen, or would you like some suggestions?”

3. If your partner is less interested in sex than you are, try a little empathy.

 Instead of taking the rejection personally and pressuring her for more frequent sex, consider the possible reasons for the discrepancy and desire – reasons that may have nothing to do with you. Be sensitive to issues from the past as well as your partner’s general frame of mind. Is your partner a survivor of sexual abuse? Were there traumas in her past that make physical intimacy frightening for her? 

4. Think about how much work your partner does. 

Is she frequently exhausted? If she works outside the home, how much responsibility do you assume for cooking, shopping, cleaning, laundry, and childcare? I remember a cartoon with the heading, “What do women want?” The drawing depicted a woman vacuuming; in the bubble above her head, there was a man vacuuming. Brainstorm with your partner to figure out how you can reduce her workload. 

5. Allow your partner to voice her fears, and support her in her efforts to face difficult situations.

 Women feel empowered by their significant relationships; your caring attitude will contribute to your partner’s success in attaining her goals. She doesn't need you to talk her out of her fear, or solve her problems: she just wants you to listen and understand.

6. Understand that communication is a process.

 Look at communication problems as an invitation to keep on talking, keep on listening, and eventually work things out. You and your partner may communicate very differently, but the potential is still there to reach even higher levels of understanding interest.

 Source:psychologytoday

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5 Tips to Attract Women

5 Tips for Being More Physically Attractive to Women

Impressing a girl is quite not easy. Most of the women attracts to men based on their appearance. Here are Five Tips for being more attractive to impress women.    

1) Develop a style that reflects who you are. 

Don’t just wear random clothes, think about what sort of image you want to project. When women look at you, what do they see? Try to imagine yourself from your ideal woman’s perspective: if you were your ideal woman, would you date you? Does your style reflect the unique person you are, or are you just another average guy?

2) Go to the gym at least once per week.

Even if you’re in decent shape. You’ll look better, but more importantly you’ll feel better. If you aren’t in shape, this is even more important.

3) Get a good haircut. 

Find a proper salon in your area. You might not notice the difference between a cheap and an expensive haircut, but I guarantee you women do. A well trained stylist who’s good at his/her job will know what kind of haircut suits your face, and they’ll do a much better job.

4) Work on your body language.

It’s so important but so hard to notice yourself. I recommend filming yourself talking to see how much you fidget, what your expression and eye contact is like, if you sway back and forth, and so on. Read up on body language and try to become more aware of how you move. It’ll be awkward at first, but you’ll adjust.

5) Make sure you’re groomed.

 No nose/ear hair, keep your beard trimmed. Nothing wrong with a beard, but don’t just let it grow wildly. If you have bad skin, see a doctor or try a few different skin care products. Get rid of the unibrow, even if it’s just a few stubbly hairs between your eyes. Coordinate your facial hair with your haircut.

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10 Qualities in a Guy To Impress Every Girl

Do you want to impress your loved one?If yes,Fallow me

Do all men come in a complete package? Not at all. Every man you come across will have some traits you have been wanting since ages, and sometimes you might come across certain things you probably didn’t expect them to have. Sure, there are qualities that are bound to impress some girls while it may not be same for others. However, here’s a balanced list that we’ve finally come down to. So, listing down some of the most wanted qualities in every man that will make every girl swoon. To know them, read on.

1.) He should be really loyal to you and specially to the friendship you share.

Both of you should share a trustworthy friendship and relation, and there should not be any scope to lie and hide stuff. He should be your bestfriend first and then the man whom you love.

2.) He should have a good humour; sound cliche? He should at least know what makes you laugh.

Those who make you laugh know exactly how to handle you and make things right. He surely knows how to stop making things from getting worse and that says a lot about a guy.

3.) Make an extra effort to know you and your family (if marriage is on the cards).

It can get a little tricky sometimes but getting closer to your family and being there for them when needed would definitely make you fall in love with him all the more.

4.) He should know how to react right in situations and not lose himself.

Most of the over-possessive guys go crazy and spoil the relation, and that is a trauma for any girl. The guy should be sensible and know how to react to a situation just in time and the right way!

5.) He should be willing to take chances and risks for you, and be a part of all the madness you do!

It is said, be with someone who would cross a bridge for you, not with someone who would not even cross a puddle. It is pretty understandable that girls want a person who would take every step for them without a second thought.

6.) He should not be afraid to expose his true self in front of you.

You need to build your relationship on trust and he should not be afraid of showing his vulnerable nature to you because no relationship is complete without being truthful.

7.) He should value his relationship more than his “Male Ego”.

Well, who wants a MCP(Male Chauvinist Pig)? He should know the meaning of equality and never underestimate you and the relationship.

8.) He should be a hardcore career oriented person irrespective of all his parties and fun. #Priorities

A man with an ambition and focus is much sexier than just a hot body with no plans for the future. He should aim high and work hard towards it and you should be a part of his future plan.

9.) He shouldn’t expect things you to do things that he himself wouldn’t do!

He should know what it is to respect a woman. He should treat you the way he would treat hid mother or sister! And, obvioulsy not have unrealistic expectations from you.

10.) And lastly, he should be a hopeless romantic person or at least know how to make it up to you when he falters. 

Not all guys are romantic and know how to express their feelings, but doing their bit every now and then would only bring out the spark in a relationship. 

Source:Partiko

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